Our visit in מכון למקדש

ACTUAL DATE: 4/11/2012 - 4th day of חול המועד פסח

Anyone who's taken the steps from the Old City down to the Kosel has noticed the Menorah enclosed in a glass case on the way down- (when I was in seminary it was in the Cardo, but has since been moved). The kids were always so excited to see it, and I would burst their bubble and tell them, not its not really זהב טהור, its just a model. And the real מנורה in the בית המקדש was much bigger too (after all, the כהן גדול had to climb up a set of stairs to reach it, didn't he?)

Well turns out that I was wrong on both accounts. Yes, the מנורה is REAL gold, and it is (at least according to some שיטות), the exact size of the מנורה in the בית המקדש. We learned all this and more, at our visit to the מכון למקדש on חול המועד פסח. We went for a very enlightening tour of the different replicas they've made -בגדי כהונה, שולחן, מזבח הזבב, to mention a few! The kids really enjoyed, especially Yisrael who had just finished learning about the משכן and the בגדי כהונה in פרשת תרומה and פרשת תצוה- he participated nicely when the tour guide asked questions to the group, showing how well he had learned these ענינים.

According to what I learned there, the מנורה was not nearly as tall as you'd imagine- the כהן גדול could easily reach the top without the steps- but he needed the steps so that his sleeve wouldn't slide up as he reached upwards to light it. Once climbing up the steps, he would be able to reach straight in front of him to light the מנורה, therefore keeping his arms properly covered (this example of צניעות in the בית המקדש is much less known than the example of the ramp to the מזבח).

This is just one of the many amazing things we learned during the tour, where we were able to see, touch, and even smell many different things that were in the בית המקדש. The last part of the tour was a model of the בית המקדש, which was much more beautiful (and supposedly much more accurate) than any other I've seen.

After the guided tour, we watched a video presentation depicting what it was like to be עולה רגל and bring the קרבן פסח. It was very entertaining for the kids, and made the concept much more real and concrete. They also had an activity center where each child was able to choose a project to make, related to the בית המקדש, as well as a cute skit about bringing the קרבן פסח.

Once we finished our visit in מכון למקדש, we headed down the stairs towards the כותל, and of course appreciated the model מנורה much more (it belongs to מכון למקדש and they display it there). And while davening מנחה at the כותל, surrounded by thousands of other Yidden all being "עולה רגל", I felt much more כונה when davening that Hashem should give us back the בית המקדש- for only one who truly understands and appreciates how beautiful it really was, can really mourn its absence and daven for its return, במהרה בימנו אמן!

Our Pre-Pesach Getaway

Since Bentzi started teaching, he doesn't have much vacation.  Usually we like to do something right after Pesach- when the weather is nice and places aren't crowded.  Only this year, he started teaching the Sunday right after Pesach.  Which meant the only time off he had for Pesach was the week before Pesach, and Pesach itself.   So I hustled and got my Pesach cleaning done early, so that we could have a few days to go away before Pesach started.

So early Tuesday morning, with the kitchen turned over and the house ready for Pesach, we packed up the van we rented (no room for our whole family in our regular car!) and headed up North- our destination:  the Golan/Kinneret area.  We headed up along the shore of the Mediterranean, with a stop in Ikea in Netanya where I got some goodies for the house.  They've got a great (free) "babysitting service" there, where you can leave the kids in this huge play area for an hour- they get proper supervision and we get to shop without five kids in tow (we kept Naftali and Nissim with us).  Afterwards, we treated the family to soft-serve ice cream.

Next we stopped by the beach in חדרה for a picnic lunch and to play in the sand.  The water was cold, so we just stuck our toes in (except for an over-eager Bruria who got her whole skirt soaked!)  Sorry, no pics- I was too busy supervising  and couldn't double as a cameraman!

Then we headed towards our final destination for the day- a camping grounds right off the Kinneret.  We found a lovely beach called "חוף גופרה" which had quite a few frum families - enough for a minyan (I guess we weren't the only ones who finished getting ready for Pesach early!)  We barbequed hot dogs and roasted marshmallows, and finally fell asleep in the tent (thank you Menucha for lending us your equipment!) after a busy but enjoyable day.

The next morning, the kids had a blast playing in the water- the כנרת was much warmer and they enjoyed splashing in the water and collecting seashells while we packed up the tent and got ready to head out (don't worry, they were well supervised the entire time!)  Then we headed out to Moshav Yonatan, in the Golan, to visit our Saba Mordechai.  The kids had a nice time visiting with Saba and munching on the rest of his chometz which he had to finish off!

We had hoped to go on a really fun water hike, the מג'רסה, but when we got there, we found out that the site was closed temporarily.  So instead, we  headed towards טבריה, where we took a small boat ride out onto the כנרת.  We had a fun time seeing the shore from a different perspective, and we even saw a few fish splashing through the surface of the water! 

By the time Tatty davened Mincha (and we had some ice cream while we waited) we headed towards the campgrounds.  Only problem is that by the time we got there...it was closed- apparently they only allow entrance until sunset.  But we had wonderful סייעתא דשמיא and were able to find a nice vacation resort nearby- and we "happened" to meet the manager, who let us stay for the night at a rock-bottom  price.  Not quite as cheap as camping, but the accomodations were definitely more comfortable!

After a good night's sleep, and a filling 5-star breakfast (we were shocked to discover that the products they served were actually הכשרים we use!) we got ready to go home, with one final attraction on the way- we went "sledding" and "skiing" on הר גלבוע.  While it was a bit ouf of place- it was a hot sunny day- we had a lot of fun (especially since I've never gone skiing before!)  Basically, they have special matting laid down on the slope of a mountain, with cold water sprayers, to make it feel a bit like you're on the snow.  The kids had fun sledding down the mountain- forwards, backwards, doubled up, and all four holding onto each other's sleds- and Bentzi and I took turns supervising and skiing down the slopes.  The kids also enjoyed watching their Mommy ski, challenging me to try the more difficult slope- which I must admit was actually more fun!

After a few hours of (hot) fun, we ate a quick lunch, and headed back to Beitar- just in time for בדיקת חמץ!

B"H we all had a really nice time, and came into Yom Tov feeling refreshed.  And the one of the best parts was that we were able to eat as much Chometz as we wanted, without having to do the "chometz dance" and worrying about bringing crumbs into the house!

Cute Quote: What kind of Jew are you?

On Shabbos, we were discussing the various different minhagim you'll find across the different "sects" of Yidden, come Pesach time.  I was explaining to the kids that the ice cream we had for dessert was not Chometz, but it has kitniyos in it- so even though we can't eat it on Pesach, ספרדים can.

Then one of the kids asked, "What are we?"

At first, I answered "אשכנזים" and then I added that we are also "ליטאים".  To which Bentzi interjected- "Well, we're also somewhat חסידים" (we don't eat Gebroks and we daven נוסח ספרד).

Naftali, listening to the conversation, had one thing to say - "אנחנו טעים"- and he continued to eat his ice cream!

And you know what?  He's right!  No matter if we're ליטאים or חסידים or אשכנזים or ספרדים ...to Hashem, we are all חביבים (which I guess is similar enough to 'yummy')!

Announcing...the answer to my riddle!

Last week, I presented you with a riddle in my post about our trip to the zoo on Shushan Purim.  This riddle generated a lot of very creative responses from my readers in the western hemisphere (should that be capitalized?)  I must admit I was disappointed from my readers here in the Middle East, as they did not participate in the fun.  At least one reader here admits she was offended by the zebra's position (she would have preferred a front view)- I apologize, and next time I will try harder to get the zebra to pose nicely!

I must admit, that this is one of those examples where you could say that the question is better than the answer.  I DO have a real answer, however, it is much less exciting and creative than some of the suggestions that were given.

In order to give you the answer, I first need to give you some background:

A while ago, I read an interesting article in the Mishpacha, about the "Living Torah Museum", started by Rabbi Shaul Shimon Deutsch.  Rabbi Deutsch's mission in founding the museum, was to display concepts mentioned in the Torah in a tangible way, making them come to life.  The museum features artifacts, real "stuffed animals", as well as diagrams and models.  (Sounds like a really nice place to visit if you're ever in Brooklyn or Lakewood).

I'm going to quote part of the article, where the answer to my riddle is found:

At this point in my tour, a school bus pulls up and deposits a group of seventh-graders from the Mirrer Yeshivah, accompanied by their rebbi. Rabbi Deutsch, clearly practiced in leading this type of group, starts right in with a splash:

“In Megillas Esther, it says Mordechai sent riders mounted on extremely swift animals — referred to as haachashtranim bnei haramachim — to tell the Jews they could defend themselves,” he tells the boys. “Does anyone know what a remach is?”

They shuffle expectantly; no one knows. “One source tells us it means zebra riders,” Rabbi Deutsch says. “Look, I just got a baby zebra. Anybody want to hold it?” He reaches up to pull a small zebra, posed in a sitting position, from a shelf. A dozen pairs of hands reach out to pet it.

“A lot of people think that zebras can’t be domesticated, but they can,” he goes on, clearly in his element. “Rothschild did it — he had a team of four zebras brought to England, and they pulled his coach.” He flicks on a monitor mounted near the ceiling, and a photo flashes of Lord Rothschild, seated regally in his carriage behind four harnessed zebras. Then he directs their attention to a nature video showing zebras leaping through the savanna, to show the boys just how fast they are.

Well, there you go!  Hope you learned something!  (You can read the full Mishpacha article here)

Shushan Purim in the Zoo!

Since the Friday after Purim was one of the rare occasions that the whole family had off (now that Bentzi started teaching he doesn't get much "בין הזמנים" anymore...), we decided to take advantage of the opportunity, and go on nice family outing to the zoo.  So as Purim drew to a close, I quickly whipped the house back into shape, set the Shabbos table, and got things ready so we could leave for the zoo in the morning. 

There was a real Purim spirit in the zoo- starting with a clown walking on stilts that greeted us at the entrance (the kids asked me, "is he a REAL clown or was he just מתחפש to a clown?!"- I explained to them that ALL clowns are really people dressed up as clowns).  They also had a "Lion" and "Tiger" near the entrance, which Yisrael and Bruria got a kick out of, but the younger kids were too scared to go near them no matter how much I coaxed or explained!

All the zoo staff were wearing headbands with animal ears.  Why, even the elephants had "face paint" (and tushy paint too)!

Now, a Purim riddle for all my dear readers.  What does this picture have to do with Megillas Esther?  Post your answers in the comments below, and stay tuned soon for the answer!

Happy Shushan Purim!

Purim Costumes!

Each year its getting harder to get all five kids together for one Purim picture...this year, I don't think I had all 5 awake in the house at one time the entire day!  With Yisrael learning in "ישיבת מרדכי הצדיק" and Bruria prancing around town delivering משלוח מנות to her friends,  and Nissim needing a nap, just getting a picture of each of them didn't prove to be such a simple feat!  (Not to mention that Mama was pre-occupied with getting ready for a Seuda which we hosted!)

B"H everyone looked adorable in their costumes.  Yisrael wanted to be the כהן גדול again (he wore the same costume last year)- he just finished learning פרשת תצוה in Cheder and was very excited to wear it.  Only problem (if you can call it that!) is that he learned the Chumash so well, that he knew all the measurements of exactly how long everything was supposed to be, exactly of what type of material, and kept on complaining about the innaccuracies in his costume.  We did make a new ציץ and מצנפת which were more authentic looking, but I put my foot down when he asked for an אבנט that was 32 אמות long!

Bruria was a כלה, and she relished the opportunity to get all dressed up and wear makeup.  She was a real beauty, and I must admit at one point when I was watching her, I had a thought that before we know it  I'll be marrying her off!  (okay, well a bit longer than that....but time really does fly!  Seems like just yesterday they were just babies!)

Azriel Shraga was  מררכי הצדיק (in the picture he's missing his beard...oh well).  He loved his costume and was especially proud of the horse and the sign that he wore which we made together.

Naftali, who is always a bit of a clown, decided to make it official and dress up as one.  Good thing I got a picture right after I did the face makeup, becuase right afterward he ate a chocolate hamantasch and got it smeared all over his face!

And Nissim was a clown too- which matches his bright, happy personality.  The ribbons in his hair drew lots of comments- they just added to his natural cuteness!  (he didn't want to keep his hat on, even just to snap a picture...oh well!)

I did not manage to snap a picture of Tatty with his hat...he picked up some strange Santa style hat with braids (not sure what it was really meant to be!)  He wore it to Cheder and his students (all Americans!) called him "Mrs. Santa".  Definitely a bit didfferent!

Enjoy!

 

How do you eat your Hamantasch?

If you have trouble viewing, click here to download the clip

(Inspired by the Reeses Pieces commercial from about 20 years ago,

not sure if they still use this idea!)